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A Calm Guide to Choosing Songs That Feel Like You (Not a Performance)
Ceremony music isn’t there to fill space. It’s there to shape a feeling—so the room softens, your shoulders drop, and the moment becomes real.
If you’ve ever worried that music might feel like “a show,” or that it could push emotion instead of letting it arrive naturally, this guide is for you. The most elegant ceremonies aren’t built on more songs. They’re built on the right structure, intentional timing, and a musician who knows how to support the moment without taking it over.
I’m Deborah — a singer who approaches weddings like a craft: atmosphere, pacing, and emotional detail. Here’s the framework I use with couples and planners to create ceremony music that feels clean, intimate, and deeply personal.
Austrian–Italian Schlossberg Wedding in Graz | Birgit & Roberto
Some weddings feel like a gentle merge of two worlds.
Birgit & Roberto’s Austrian–Italian celebration above the rooftops of Graz was exactly that: 40 guests, late October light, a civil ceremony in the Kanonenbastei and an intimate reception in the Skybar – held together by family, languages and live music.
As their wedding singer with live vocals and guitar, my brief was simple: create a warm, elegant atmosphere from the first word of the ceremony to the last slice of cake, and make sure both sides of the family felt equally seen and included.
Austrian Mountain Wedding at Steirereck am Pogusch | Viktoria & Michael
Above the Pogusch, the pace slows. Friends and family arrive to mountain light and timber. Viktoria and Michael both work at Steirereck Stadtpark — he a three-Michelin-star chef, she in outstanding front-of-house service — so the bar for hospitality was naturally high. My brief: live vocals and guitar that are understated, modern, and easy to enjoy—music as part of hosting. That means welcoming pacing, guest-friendly volume, multilingual touches where they matter, and seamless transitions so people feel looked after from the first note.
Italian Villa Wedding at Castello di Buttrio | Antonia & Tom
Castello di Buttrio rests on gentle Friulian hills, where vineyards, warm stone, and long summer light set the tone. For Antonia & Tom, it felt intimate and timeless—an Italian villa setting that lets emotions breathe. Our role was simple: score the day with live vocals and guitar so every moment felt personal—from the aisle to the courtyard—while conversations flowed easily.
Choosing the Perfect Wedding Music: Where Do You Start?
Choosing the right music for your wedding can feel overwhelming. After all, your wedding day is a reflection of you as a couple, and music plays such a powerful role in setting the mood and creating memories. But with so many options and so many moments to consider, how do you know what will be right for you?
Let’s take a step back. Instead of diving into song lists or styles right away, let's ask some fundamental questions that will help guide you toward a musical experience that truly reflects your love story and vision for the day.
The Magic of a Duo: Vocals, Guitar, and Violin for Your Wedding
The music at your wedding plays a key role in setting the tone and creating an unforgettable atmosphere. If you’re looking for a unique and elegant combination, a duo of vocals, guitar, and violin might be exactly what you need. Here’s why this special musical arrangement will emotionally enrich your wedding and make it truly memorable.